Interview: Joel Kim Booster - Rude Little Pig
Congrats on your engagement! How do you balance your work life and your love life?
I think having a super understanding partner is a huge part of it. He knows how important my work is to me, knows how much more important that just work it is, how life sustaining it is for me, and is great about letting me go off and do things in service of that. But on the flip side when I am home I make an effort to be focused on our quality time, to focus on him and not be somewhere else when I’m home.
On a scale of 1-10--What’s your take on being called a sex symbol?
It’s definitely a 5. Of course, on some level it feels good and of course as an Asian American man I understand how meaningful that can be at times with regard to representation, but for the most part I find that kind of attention to be deeply embarrassing. My friends don’t let me live it down.
Who have been your mentors? How do you pay it forward?
Mentorship has always been hugely important to me. I wouldn’t be where I am without the help of several mentors as I was coming up. But seeing the ladder get pulled up behind so many people in a similar position as mind and agreeing with my cohort of comedians that we weren’t going to do that to each other and trying my best to be a good mentor to those coming behind me, has been a real joy. I don’t see my success as my own, and I definitely don’t want to be the only person benefiting from it.
What would you like to see more of in the queer community?
A little bit more kindness and a little bit less judgement. I think allowing space to allow people to experience queerness in a different way than you do is something we struggle with as a community. There are a lot of different ways to do this. Not any one of them is better than the next. We all make different decisions for how we want to live our lives. Queerness can look a lot of different ways. The less we have a ridged definition on what it means to be queer and the more we allow space at the table for more people the better we will be as a community.
If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice, what would it be?
Don’t take out student loans to get a theater degree is my number on piece of advice. The other piece of advice is that none of this will happen on your own timeline. You can plan, you can hope, you can dream. Every success I have had has happened after a great failure. Moments when I thought it was over, I will never reach that next level. It’s like three steps forward, two steps back, but you keep taking that extra step forward.
What is something about fame that has been unexpected for you?
I didn’t expect the scrutiny of my personal life. I always knew it would come along with it but the degree to which people scrutinize my personal life and relationship. I never really conceptualize what it would be like to be famous with a partner. It is something you kind of think of doing on your own. Sometimes I feel like I am dragging him along and forcing him into this life of scrutiny. Sometimes I feel he is really grounding me and reminding me none of this is real. What we have is real. So, it is nice to not have to experience it alone.
Do you read books or are you an audible person?
I used to be much more of a tactile person. As my life has got busier and crazier I am in audible space a lot more. I am reading a newish book Zanie Smith, The Fraud. Zanie Smith is on Along with America I am following along Agatha All Along and Love is Blind. I’ve got my books, and I’ve got my trash TV.
What is your favorite on-the-road snack?
Sour patch Kids. Much to my detriment.
Is there anything you want your Twin Cities fans to know before they come out to the show?
I am just excited to be back in the Midwest. As much time as I spend in New York and LA I am always going to be in my heart a Midwest boy.
Heather McDonald - Just One Of The Girls!
Heather McDonald is making a stop in Minneapolis, October 18th at The Fillmore! We chatted with Heather today and she had me laughing from the start. Heather is the kind of human who sets you at ease and it feels like you are talking with one of your friends. Sweet, hilarious and bitingly honest, Heather was so much fun to interview!
Have you ever spent time in Minneapolis?
As a touring comedian I have been there many times, but so often just fly in and see a little bit, do the show and leave the next day. I am flying in today and I hear you have fabulous weather, so I am looking forward to going outside and finding a nice little place for a bite to eat and check out some local sights.
Do you do your own hair and makeup?
Yes! It is just one of those things that I learned from having it done so much. I love when I have someone else do it, it is a real treat. I like the routine of doing it though. It actually kind of calms me. I like to turn on my Juicy Scoop, Spotify music, which is played in the theater before. I am hopefully in a hotel that has free coffee. The nicer hotels don’t, but I love those little Keurig machines. I start getting cute, late afternoon and I like that feeling of my alone time. However, when there is a bigger event, I love having my hair and make up done. But the thing about me is, I can’t just like, be quiet. I’ll talk to the person, ask them a million questions.
Have you ever had your make done, where you have been horrified by the results?
Yes, I have. And now I am so afraid by tik tokers and what not saying I was rude to a make up artist. So, I just act like I like it and then when they leave, I take down the brow or change the eyelashes or whatever the situation is. But it would give me so much anxiety like I only have a few minutes to fix this before I go on tv.
What is new with you?
I just saw this cute video of a cute, southern girl and she had just checked into a hotel and her Mom made her call the front desk clerk and ask if he was single. He said he was. And a year later they were engaged! If this teaches you anything girls, it is go for the ask! Society has changed so much for men and women as far as dating. I want to bring back arranged marriages with other friends of mine. I am going to start an app as soon as I know how to start an app—where you find couples that you would like to co grandparent with, go on vacation together and hang out together and then you pair up your children. It’s great!
How do you handle being a parent and wife with all the other jobs you have! As a podcaster, touring comedian and television personality, you must be so busy!
I am really enjoying this time in my life. I am officially an empty nester as they say, they want to change the word to bird launcher. I think that is pretty clever. I am very proud that my kids are in college. I’m enjoying the experience of being alone in my house. Not hearing a large person stomping around the house or screaming at a video game. I’m not missing that part. So, so far, so good. I did kind of book this fall, knowing that I wanted to be busy. So, it wouldn’t feel weird with my youngest son being gone. I think it is a great time in my life. I am very grateful and saying yes to a lot of things and no when I need to. I can also afford to do things nicer, get a nicer hotel or a car service. I still get to do all the things, but I am giving myself permission to make things less stressful by spending a little bit more on myself. I could do stand up every night if it wasn’t for traveling, packing the outfits, flying, trying to figure out how to operate a new shower in a new town. I swear I have to call a building engineer at least one trip a weekend. I understand the lure of a Vegas residency. Because you know it’s Mickey at the door. You know your way backstage. People know who you are. Sometimes I drive up to a new city, my name is misspelled on the marquee, or no one knows know who you are. Not to sound conceited, but I’m the person who sold 900 tickets. I am not famous, famous where I can’t go to Target but famous where those that know me love me, but the person manning the door probably doesn’t know. They are like, Did I go to high school with you? It can just be kind of an awkward situation.
If you could be any housewife for one day, who would it be?
Kyle. Because I want to know if someone’s going to go down on me! That’s the only one because I really don’t know what’s going on. And, she doesn’t live to far from me, so I wouldn’t have to figure out where to get Chinese salad. I also like Erika Jane a lot now that this is all over. She’s not really playing this character and is safe to be herself. She’s a pretty good time.
Who has been one of your favorite interviews on Juicy Scoop?
I just had Drea de Matteo yesterday. She is just a really cool chick. She has a really interesting life. I didn’t know that she came from a Mafia background on both sides of her family and even she didn’t know until recently. She is writing a book, and she was just really cool.
What is your favorite on the road snack?
I love a Kind bar; I just love the crunch of the nut! I am someone that just loves anything in a bowl. Like I love that bowls have taken over the world. Like a little rice and lettuce mixed together, or a poke bowl, a Greek bowl, a Mexican bowl. I feel like it is also easy to eat because I am a slob, always spilling on myself.
What impersonation do you get asked to do the most?
Probably Drew Barrymore or RIP Ramona because she is not on the real Housewives of New York anymore, but she is still giving comedy gold.
Get ready to be HORROR-FIDE at parkway Theater!
The Rocky Horror Picture Show produced by Orthogonal Productions is Coming Your Way! Don't miss this fantastic event! I had a blast interviewing Brandon Caviness abou this amazing theater experience!
Do you encourage theater goers to come dressed in costume? Is this an interactive event?
Costumes are always encouraged! I'm a firm believer in "dressing for the theatre" and what better way to dress for Rocky Horror than a costume? We strongly encourage the audience participation script (yes there's a script) to be used but for safety reasons can't allow stuff to be thrown or sprayed at the cast. We're also heavy advocates for consent and autonomy at Orthogonal productions, so we *insist* that audience members keep their hands, feet and other objects to themselves throughout the production.
What do you love best about RHPS?
To clarify... This is the "Rocky Horror Show," *not* "The Rocky Horror Picture Show." So if people are coming to see a shadow cast or watch the movie I think they'll initially be fairly disappointed, but will have gotten past that by the time we hit the first big musical number.
That distinction being made: My favorite thing about the show is the way it not only gives permission but encourages people to be who they truly are.
Frank N' Furter's iconic line holds true to this day and there's a reason it starts with them and trickles through the rest of the cast: "Don't dream it, be it."
You should always be who or what you are and those who struggle with that have always had a place in the Rocky Horror family.
What is your favorite character?
Woof... Put me in an incriminating position with this question...
Diplomatically? Eddie. Everyone loves Eddie.
Real T? Riff Raff. Riff is the driving force of the show, and this answer does come from a place of bias since I played the roll back in the day, but if you're paying attention, all the drama is caused by Riff and the character's vocal part is insane!
I'm also partial to Janet just because a strong, fem character owning her sexuality and going powerhouse with it is always to be admired and encouraged. I tell the people who work with me on shows to always respect their own "no" and while society may call them intimidating for it... Be intimidating! Wear that title like a badge of honor and while Janet starts as a burgeoning "50's housewife" (following the man's lead, being a 'yes' girl, and doing what's expected of her) she ultimately finds what she wants. She finds her voice, her yes and her no, her power and ultimately herself. She's surrounded by powerful masc presenting/queer male characters and instead of being mown over by them she blossoms in spite of them. I find myself admiring Janet more often than not.
When did you first see RHPS?
I saw it for the first time when I was 16. I had to *beg* my parents to let me go (they're qualm was more with the show starting at midnight than anything else) but they ultimately acquiesced. I had no idea what I was in for. My friends dressed me up in *bad* drag and off we went. I can't say I had any idea what I had seen by the end of the show, but in some respects, I think that's the point. I just knew that it was sexy and crazy and that I liked it.
Why do you think RHPS has such a cult following?
I think it goes back to what I said earlier. Rocky Horror gives us permission to be who we truly are... Now... In all fairness the show takes it to extremity. Who you are shouldn't be an overt danger to others (gestures broadly to the violence some of the characters in the show perpetrate and the often poorly handled intimacy scenes that disregard consent and autonomy), but that aside: you should always be who you are. Rocky was one of the first shows that put a Trans character in the spotlight and made a general audience *feel* for them. Empathize with them, be attracted to them, and make that character a powerful force to be reckoned with. I think Frank N' Furter is one of the few examples of that in modern pop culture. We use trans characters and honestly LGBTQ+ characters in general as punch lines, or we make the story *about* them being queer and how weird or difficult that is and there's the stories that get told and then we fall into the trap of our entire beings being wrapped in this one part of who we are. Frank N' Furter is trans and beyond the characters introduction... That's really it for that piece of them. They're powerful, they're strong, they're dangerous, and everyone is wildly attracted to them! Frank is unapologetically who they are at all times and that is *always* sexy.
Anything different about your show vs. The original?
This ain't your Mama's "Rocky Horror."
We have a fun theme and some fresh and exciting takes on the characters. I think audience's will find this production uproariously funny, wildly sexy, and truly touching at times. We really leaned into Halloween this year and added a witchy quality to the show (as a practicing witch myself, I figured I should play in my own backyard) and the show feels nostalgic while staying fresh and new at the same time.
There's a ton to love and enjoy and we hope to see you there!
1992: Mistakes Were Made! is an outrageously hilarious true story of the class geek returning to perform at his 20th high school reunion. Bullies confronted, memories questioned, old wounds revisited. What could go wrong? Stay cool! Don't ever change!
In this hysterical and poignant comedy, Jason Schommer looks back at high school and how it shapes a person (for better or worse) as they move forward in life. From the days of being an unpopular kid in school with a rather unfortunate senior class photo to graduating and working in entertainment with the famous in New York City, Hollywood and Vegas. When Jason returns to his hometown to perform at his 20th class reunion, things take a wildly unexpected turn, and it ends up being an unforgettable night.
How has your summer been so far?
It has been a busy summer! I went to NYC for a quick trip and it was the hottest days of the summer there. The heat index was 105 degrees, which felt lethal in the subway! I was never so happy to see high 80's temps as I was when I finally returned home! Then I had a fantastic run in the MN Fringe Festival with my show about my Madonna obsession and now I'm gearing up to do a special encore of my 2023 MN Fringe show "1992: Mistakes Were Made!" at The Parkway Theater.
You recently had a show in MN Fringe! "A Material Boy Living In A Madonna World!" What was that experience like?
It was pure joy for me. Going into the show, I had high hopes that it would be received well and thankfully it was. Creating a new solo show is always a gamble. More importantly, and rather unexpectedly, I fell in love all over again with performing. I was really sad when the run of shows ended. I found myself really looking forward to the show and spending that time at the theater with the audience. It was amazing to just laugh with the audience for an hour at each performance.
You're back at The Parkway with "1992: Mistakes Were Made!" How excited are you?
I am thrilled to be coming back at The Parkway Theater! It is a beautiful theater with the coolest vibe. The Parkway staff are amazing people. I have the best time on that stage and I am honored that they keep having me back. Plus, it is always a cool moment to see your name on the marquee outside!
What is your favorite mistake of the 90’s?
So many to pick from! I would say the perm I had my senior year. That is a mistake that I have learned to just embrace and try to love. HA! Also, thinking that one could retire early in life by collecting "highly valuable" Beanie Babies. Tragic!
How did you come up with this show idea?
I reached a point in my life where I just stopped moving forward and started looking back. I was trying to figure out what I was going to do next and was struggling with it. So, in order to move forward, I had to stop and look back. I had to really figure out where I came from, how it shaped me and how it impacted my life in various ways. I realized that school and my experiences navigating it, growing up, returning for the reunions and eventually performing at my 20th class reunion was a hilarious and powerful story. We are all connected through our shared experiences and there are universal truths to growing up that we share. All you have to say to anyone to get a real, guttural, honest response is "high school". Either it was the best time of their life and they would go back in a second or it was the absolute worst period of their life and they would rather die a painful death than go back. It is one or the other for almost everyone. This show is about growing up an outsider in a small town, the desire to belong, graduating and leaving, returning as an adult, confronting bullies, renewing friendships, questioning memories, revenge, second chances, and ultimately finding forgiveness and grace. First and foremost, the show is a comedy and is wildly funny...but, it also has a heartbeat and uses humor to unlock some more serious themes and moments.
What was your favorite part of the 90’s?
Being that age where you had true independence and freedom but not a lot of responsibilities. My biggest concerns were watching The Real World on MTV and when Madonna's next album was coming out. I had no real bills to pay and life was a party.
What can audiences expect to take away from this performance?
It is never too late for second chances. Sometimes the thing you thought you needed the least was actually what you needed the most and changes you in unexpected ways. Also, a lot of laughs. Seriously...a ton of laughs!
What is your creative process when coming up with an idea for a show?
I start with a specific moment. A moment that is either wildly hilarious or bizarrely ridiculous, then I start thinking about how I got to that moment and what was the aftermath of it. I will usually talk about it with friends and family to make sure that I am remembering things correctly. It is important to me that it is funny but also truthful. Then I start looking for different threads that weave in and out of the truth of the moment and how it connects. The best stories are the ones where we are not only the hero in the story, but also, at times, the villain. If life we are never just one or the other all of the time.
Who is your comedy hero?
There are so many! I am a huge fan of Mike Birbiglia and Alex Edleman. They are storytellers of the highest level. I've never seen anything from them that I haven't loved from the get go. I adore Kathy Griffin, she is just insanely brave and fearless. She puts it all out there 100% and is so funny. Fortune Feimster makes me laugh out loud every single time I watch her. David Sedaris is the master of the comedic written word. And probably the closest to my heart, the late great Louie Anderson. I had the privilege of working with him for many years. Louie was an amazing guy and I learned so much from him!
Where can folks get tickets?
Tickets available online at www.theparkwaytheater.com Just go to their Events link and then the live events tab and scroll until the you find the show "1992: Mistakes Were Made!" with the photo of a handsome fella with a perm. HAHA! Hope to see you at the show!
A curated exhibition showcasing the works of Blake Solberg Drawings, Jared Fessler Photography and Charcuterie!
Join us for a night of beautiful art, friends and food at this lovely gallery event hosted by Jared and Blake. All are invited to come enjoy some light snacks and refreshments and take in the art of two friends and two proud LGBTQ+ community members. I spoke with Jared about the upcoming show!
When did you start doing photography?
I took classes in high school and in college but didn’t get into it right away. After I finished my master and got my first job, I went and pursued my certificate in photography.
What do you love most about being a photographer?
Getting to be creative! I love working with people, whether it is a project for their brand or something I am personally attached to, I like to be able to give them both an experience and a memory. I always feel so honored when someone asks me to capture their wedding, birth or a family photo.
Will your photos be available for purchase at the show?
Absolutely! Of course, if someone wants to buy something that is great! My main goal of the show is to just bring people together, to share the art of two friends and to connect with more individuals in the community.
Is this your first show?
No, we did this in 2019 and it was so much fun, we had to do it again! I can’t wait to get to talk with people who come out to support the show. Plus, this year we have Blake’s Mom, who is an event extraordinaire! It is going to be great! She is fantastic and folks will love it!
How accessible is space?
It is on the first level, air conditioning and parking easily available.
Join us for a curated exhibition showcasing the works of Blake Solberg Drawings and Jared Fessler Photography. We look forward to sharing our art with you!
Date: September 20, 2024 Time: 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
Location: Moth Oddities Art Gallery | 13 5th St NE, Minneapolis, MN 55413
Stop by anytime between 6:00 PM and 9:00 PM. This event is free and open to the public. Enjoy light appetizers and beverages while you explore our art. The space is air conditioned and accessible.
Parking Information
Street Parking: Free and metered
Parking Lots Nearby:
Parking lot across from the front of the Moth Oddities - Free
Kramarczuk lot - Pay
200 East Hennepin Lot
Parking Ramps Nearby:
Fire Barn Ramp - Pay
The Pinnacle at Riverplace - Pay
Saint Anthony Main Ramp - Pay
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We look forward to seeing you there!
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On your mark! Get set! QUEER Fringe!
I love the Fringe Festival! There are many fantastic queer artists presenting new works of art this year! Here are some of my picks! Supporting queer artist by showing up to see their shows directly impacts the opportunities we have to create art. Be a hero. Go see some shows.
Describe your show in one sentence.
A one-woman, dual perspective retelling of birth of The Other Jeannie Retelle.
Why did you create this art?
It’s been something I’ve wanted to do since I started drag. I can’t wait to share the inside of my brain with everyone!
What is the most exciting part of this show?
You get two faulty narrators AND it’s a makeup tutorial.
Is this your first Fringe?
Nope!
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
This is my fifth Fringe I’ve produced, but my fourth successful one.
What do you love about Fringe?
It’s the same thing that I love about Drag: it can be whatever the artist wants it to be so it’s a macrocosm of someone’s creativity.
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
Don’t be a drag, just be queen. If you’re late, you’re a peen.
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
A celebration of self-expression.
Describe your show in one sentence.
Highlighting and celebrating Minnesota and the talent and excellence that is here, there is five unique shows to see in this late-night style extravaganza!
Why did you create this art?
I went to a comedy festival in Omaha, Nebraska, and took a class with Amber Ruffin. When someone asked, how do you get better at writing for late night she simply responded with “Do it!”. And I don’t want to let Amber down. I was a part of the first iteration of Minnesota Tonight and I am happy to say I brought it out of its hiatus with a new host, but the same love for Minnesota.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
The show will be different every night that means new monologues, new sketches, new interview guest, new stand-up, and a new song from our one-man band. It’s a perfect thing to visit again and again and again.
Is this your first Fringe?
I’ve worn a lot of hats for past Fringe festivals, including directing, acting, and improvising, but this is my first time producing for Minnesota Fringe
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
I’m a first time producer and I couldn’t be more excited!
What do you love about Fringe?
Frankly, the opportunity to take risk and be bold is what draws me to Minnesota Fringe. I fully intend on showcasing so much of what I’ve learned during my time in Minnesota through the show.
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
Looking for the option that’s right? You can’t go wrong with Minnesota Tonight!
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Variety
Describe your show in one sentence.
A filthy twist on a classic musical
Why did you create this art?
I want to create discourse around the association between queerness and filth. As queer people, we are often taught to feel shame around our identities; we are taught to feel dirty and reject ourselves, often by our own family. I love John Waters, and more specifically Divine, for the simple fact that they embrace the filthy, the weird, and the unseen. They shed light on the legion of underground queer people who have a lot to say, but often go unheard.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
Drag, burlesque, musical theater. Blood, guts, and glitter. What’s not to like?
Is this your first Fringe?
Yes!
What do you love about Fringe?
I love the creative freedom. Fringe poses you with essentially one question: "What can you do on stage in 60 minutes?" There's so much space to play and it has been a really fulfilling creative process. Fringe has brought a lot of my crew back to the theater. For that, we are so thankful and so excited!
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
August 1st, half-past 8, your heart will burst, don't be late!
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Examining complex mother-daughter relationships through the lens of filthy camp.
Describe your show in one sentence.
Two trans people experience the joy of living authentically, face internalized transphobia, overcome their self-doubts to find happiness outside of the gender binary, and sing with music from a live orchestra!
Why did you create this art?
I want the transgender audience members to receive the message that they are valid even if they do not “pass”, even if they are not always self-confident, and even if they do not fulfill other people’s expectations of how a transgender person should be. I want the cisgender audience members to receive the message that trans people are neither monsters nor heroes, that we are simply people trying to live and be happy in a complicated and often difficult world.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
I’m producing a musical theater show, with two highly acclaimed opera/musical theater singers, and a live orchestra consisting of 11 instruments! There will be several songs with catchy melodies, fun harmonic progressions, and dramatic orchestral sounds!
Is this your first Fringe?
Yes, this is my first Fringe show!
What do you love about Fringe?
I love the variety of styles/genres of shows at Fringe, including improv theater, musical theater, comedies, tragedies, and everything in between! I also love how Fringe centers LGBTQ voices, BIPOC voices, and other people from marginalized backgrounds. Finally, it’s so exciting to have dozens of shows being performed across the city, and to be able to see multiple shows in one day!
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
Be the real you, and your dreams will come true!
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Being your authentic true self is a journey. It can often be a difficult journey, but it a journey that is very worthwhile!
Describe your show in one sentence.
A hilarious comedy by Madonna superfan, Jason Schommer, in which he shares hysterical stories and anecdotes from his life through the lens of the Material Girl's outrageous career!
Why did you create this art?
Madonna just celebrated 40 years of her history making career and she has truly been the soundtrack to my life. Madonna has been the most influential ally to the Queer community from the get go. She was one of the very first entertainers to speak out in support of the LGBTQIA+ community and has never wavered. This show is a wildly hilarious love letter to the true Queen of Pop, Madonna.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
The slide show is absolutely hysterical. No joke.
Is this your first Fringe?
No.
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
7!
What do you love about Fringe?
The variety and bravery of the artists. Anything goes at the Fringe and the creativity is off the charts. You can see new works that would never be staged anywhere else.
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Fearless.
Describe your show in one sentence.
A spoken word comedy on the topic of climate that is uniquely intersectional with LGBTQ+ narratives.
Why did you create this art?
A whole lot of ideas and profound connections came to me in a lot of unexpected creative flashes which I wanted to share with the world.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
Arousing wordplay and the fact no one else to my knowledge does this unique combination of topics and format.
Is this your first Fringe?
No I was in the Fringe in 2019
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
2 but the last one was similar.
What do you love about Fringe?
I like how it gives an opportunity for people who aren’t professional performers or fit some preconceived format to have an opportunity to have a stage.
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
It’s not a crime if it doesn’t rhyme, but if you want me as a mate don’t aim to be fashionably late.
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Saving the world by telling a joke so funny that our enemies die of laughter.
Cli-Mate ‘Just’- Us
Aug 1, 3, 5, 9 & 11
The strike theater
Describe your show in one sentence.
We improvise funny, joyful Shakespeare!
Why did you create this art?
We both love Shakespeare, but it's also a space that's been dominated by a lot of male voices and heteronormative interpretations for the bulk of its history. We love bringing a fun, queer, femme interpretation to it.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
It's kind of impossible to describe what it's like to see people improvise Shakespeare!
Is this your first Fringe?
It's the first for Juliet & Juliet, but Meghan and Sami have been part of other shows in the past.
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
This is our first!
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
If thou wouldst enter the most hallowed halls
Depart with haste! There is no time to stall!
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
Chaotic joy in verse!
Describe your show in one sentence.
An improvised burlesque, pole, and drag show, where the audience's karaoke performances provide the soundtrack to the show.
Why did you create this art?
At first, this show was created to blend Curvee B's favorite passions—karaoke, improv, and burlesque. But it's grown into something far more meaningful. It's about giving performers the freedom to dance joyfully, in the moment, to songs they may or may not know. It's also about introducing newcomers to the thrill of karaoke in a supportive environment. What excites us most is being cheerleaders for those experiencing karaoke for the first time at our shows, cheering them on to try something new and feeling safe to do so. This show is filled with singing, laughter and a lot of sexiness and is a platform for doing bold things, where everyone is set up to succeed.
What is the most exciting part of this show?
The most exciting part of this show is the unexpected dymanics between performers, songs, and costumes. We've seen Princess Leia dance to 'My Heart Will Go On' and a cowgirl perform to 'Part of Your World'—combinations that are always surprising. But beyond that, it's the energy and support from hosts, cast, and audience members that create magical moments on stage together.
Is this your first Fringe?
This is actually our second time participating—we got our start here in 2022 and we're thrilled to be back!
How many Fringe shows have you produced?
This is our second show at the Fringe Festival.
What do you love about Fringe?
What we love about Fringe is witnessing the diverse array of art that's created across the board, and being part of a community where people who may not normally produce are given an opportunity to do so and create something new.
Give me a rhyme to show up to your Fringe show on time:
Arrive on time to be part of our dynamic and diverse cast—each show is a celebration of our production team's values and the vibrant Twin Cities community & beyond! From the captivating 'Sábado Gigante' show with its all-Latin cast hosted by Zetta, to the empowering 'Fat & Fabulous' show featuring an all-fat bodied cast hosted by Curvee B, we're pushing creative boundaries and celebrating diversity in every performance. Experience bold and unforgettable shows that Fringe allows us to bring to life, showcasing a range of talents that will inspire and entertain. And, most importantly, come to be the soundtrack to the show! We need our fabulous audience members to step up to the mic and rock their karaoke hearts out!
If you had to pick one theme for your show, what would it be?
If I had to pick one theme for our show, it would be embracing the balance of silly, sexy, and authenticity.
All are welcome at The Twin Cities Tattoo Festival! Join in on the art, the excitement and have a unique experience July 12-14th!
The Twin Cities Tattoo Festival, Minnesota’s premier tattooing event, will take place the weekend of July 12-14 at Saint Paul RiverCentre. The Festival will host over 250 tattoo artists exhibiting their work and competing in contests with 15 categories.
Nationally and internationally recognized artists will be set up for the public to browse and collect tattoos! Artists have already started booking in advance, but plenty will be accepting walk-up tattoos. To find your perfect artist, visit twincitiestattoofestival.com/artists/attending-artists. Do it quickly before they are booked solid for the entire weekend.
The Festival will also feature vendors ranging from oddities to clothing and makers of all kinds. This event is open to the public and family friendly. The Twin Cities Tattoo Festival is presented by Tattoo Fest and the Explorer Tattoo Conference – the world’s largest educational tattoo conference.
I chatted with Quinn Hurley from the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival to find out more!
How many years has this festival been running?
This will be the second year of the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival. We had an incredible turn out last year, and this year we have even more artists coming to make it a great experience for the Twin Cities area.
Can you get a tattoo at the TC Tattoo Festival?
You ABSOLUTELY can get a tattoo at the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival -- that is what we are here for! Artists are currently making appointments. There will also be many artists that are taking walk-ups throughout the weekend.
How much does it cost? Can you get tickets at the door?
Tickets are only available at the door. It is $30 for a Single Day pass and $65 for a weekend pass. Tattoos are priced individually by the artists.
What is the best part of the festival?
The best part of the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival is bringing so many incredible artists from all over together. Not only do we have the best of the best from the Minneapolis/St. Paul area, but nationally and internationally recognized artists will all converge to make really incredible tattoos that we get to see.
Is there food and drinks available?
There is food and drink for sale via the concessions of the Saint Paul RiverCentre.
How many people typically come every year?
We expect to see between 3k-6k attendees this year.
Can you watch artists compete?
Competitions are one of the most fun parts of the Festival! The majority of competitions are for healed tattoos, however we have fresh tattoo contests each day for tattoos done at the Festival. We also have our Worst Tattoo Contest sponsored by Removery, where folks can show off their bad tattoos from past mistakes and have the chance to win a free removal package from Removery -- the World's leader in tattoo removal.
What do you want folks to know about the experience?
I like to let everyone know that the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival is welcoming to all. While one must be 18+ to get a tattoo, it is an all ages event. The Twin Cities Tattoo Festival welcomes those that have a hundred tattoos and those that have none. If you are just interested in art, and seeing a different art style than what most people see, this is the place for you! Also I cannot drive home the point enough that this is an event where you can get tattooed! There are over 400 artists that are going to be tattooing all weekend long, so if you are wanting to get a tattoo -- this is your time and the Twin Cities Tattoo Festival is the place.
OSTRI(CHI)ZED! FREE yourself from polarization, isolation, and ostracization.
Hi Witney Nelson! Tell me more about you! How did you got this idea? How has the journey been?
For a very long time, Minneapolis was a very lonely place for me. I was almost always the only queer and sober person in my workplace and community. While I still found connection with people with similar interests, the prevalent attitude of “never really belonging,” lingered in the background everywhere I went and in almost everything I did. I’ve spent most of my life here, but it wasn’t until I was out and sober that I really found a sense of community.
I’ve been involved in multiple projects for the LGBTQ+ and Recovery community. Recognizing that Pride is often inextricably linked with alcohol and gay bars have long been a staple of queer gathering, I set out to provide alternatives to uplift the community. As a part of the solution, I created and organized a Sober Experiences Awesome event at Pride in 2023, and now I’m launching an alcohol-free brew called, "Ostri(chi)zed," for Pride in 2024.
This is due, in large part, to when I first discovered nonalcoholic beverages, I had a breakthrough in my recovery. I had a new tool to help me overcome my social anxiety, and was better able to deal with the discomfort. It offered me another shield of protection in public spaces, as someone who deeply feared social rejection for being gay. While this is one tool of many, the simple truth was that it helped me, and you need a tool chest full of items to lean on when you’re doing this kind of soul work. I no longer fear this kind of rejection like I used to.
Have you seen a shift in the way the world perceives sobriety?
As the Community Relations Manager for MARCO, I have the unique privilege of attending the Faces and Voices of Recovery Leadership Summit out in Denver this week. In a Harm Reduction breakout session today, there was even a new term I heard called “Wellbriety.” Wellbriety is the inspiration to go on beyond sobriety and recovery, committing to a life of wellness and healing everyday. I thought this was a pretty cool word and definition that demonstrated the shift that’s occurring in this field.
The artwork is amazing for Ostri(chi)zed! Who is the artist?
I actually met my ostrich artist (yes, this is totally a job title) in my Peer Recovery Specialist Training at Minnesota Recovery Connection. I had the idea and a mockup of an ostrich with sunglasses and flowers in the lens, and John was able to bring it to life. John and I have actually become pretty tight through this process and I consider him a dear friend.
What does PRIDE mean to you?
Pride, to me, means being able to live your truth without fear. Oh, and to have fun.
What does Ostri(chi)zed taste like? Where can you buy it?
It’s so refreshing! Ostri(chi)zed is a tropical style IPA brewed with mango, peach, and lemon. At only 60 calories per brew, it’s low cal, too! It’s truly 0.0 and no alcohol is introduced whatsoever during the process. We are officially launching for TCPride! Come meet me at booth 204 in the green section and for your chance to purchase the limited edition Pride label. Your purchase and support will help me be able to fund my first large scale production.
How did you come up with the name: Ostri(chi)zed ?
I feel like what I have written on the label summarizes this pretty well:
OSTRI(CHI)ZED means to FREE yourself from polarization, isolation, and ostracization.
(Yeah… we made up a cool ostrich and a new word to make light of this dark truth - to flip it on its head)
In ostrich lingo…
PULL YOUR HEAD OUT OF THE SAND AND BE INCLUDED!
Face it, folks who don’t drink alcohol have been getting a bad rap for way too long. YOU CAN BE FREE from alcohol for a reason, season, or a lifetime.
OSTRI(CHI)ZED is the alcohol-free brew that lets YOU DO YOU. Free to be. No judgment, No shade.
What brings you joy?
Community and connection. The queer and recovery community is the most loving and accepting group of people I have ever met.
Learn more about Ostri(chi)zed Brewing and to be the first to get up-to-date information on pre-orders for full scale production here: ostrichized.com
KFAI's Shimmer!
We were so excited to talk all things PRIDE with radio host and personality, Shimmer! Shimmer is a steady force of sparkle, creativity and kindness in the Twin Cities Queer Community! She is SHAMAZING!
What are the headlines for Shimmer?
I have had to really focus on my mental health and wellbeing this year. I went through a store closure, and it was very emotional for me on many levels. This year I had to go into a cocoon. However, I am bringing all the fabulousness that you would expect to my fashion shows and lip sync shows. I love producing. I am looking forward to being with the community. I’ve missed it. I’ve missed community.
When do you feel your most proud?
I feel like when PRIDE is here, I am my most proud. I feel the most excited. I feel I can be myself. I can be my sparkly Shimmer self!
Do you think Twin Cities Pride puts on a fun festival?
I love how queerness is celebrated in the Twin Cities and especially during pride. Yes, PRIDE is amazing.
You are a radio host on KFAI. What brings you joy in broadcasting?
I love co-hosting Fresh Fruit! Roxanne ROCKS! I also have my own morning show that I have been doing for almost two years now. It is called Daybreak with Shimmer. It airs every Thursday morning from 6 am to 8 am. It is all about pop culture. I love pop music. I love KFAI, they offer such a community feel and have given me a platform to live my dream of being on the radio.
Where can we find you at PRIDE?
I will be hosting the Power to the People stage from 10 am till 6 pm! I will probably walk in the parade this year! Come and find me out and about all weekend!
Calliope Women's Chorus is loud and proud!
A historic choir, this group of women is building equality through music. Read on!
Happy Pride! How does Calliope Women's Chorus celebrate PRIDE?
Calliope ends up really busy during Pride Month. As a choir this year we're hosting our spring concert, and we'll be at both Golden Valley Pride and Twin Cities Pride festivals.
What inspires the music selections?
We pull inspiration from everywhere. Sometimes we'll get inspried by a specific piece of music and program a concert around that piece, and other times we'll want to focus more on something more conceptual. Recently we've been really inspired by our community in the face of our current political climate. For example our fall concert was "The Fire Within" that drew on our strength as individuals and our drive to make the world a better place, our spring concert last year was "Stronger Together" emphasizing our collective voices, and our spring this year is "My Body" where we explore the great things about our bodies and our autonomy as people.
How do you amplify voices ?
Calliope works really hard to find marginalized voices and bring their perspectives to the front. Generally this is done through our music and programming. We work to ensure we're using composers that come from diverse backgrounds, and present a variety of different viewpoints. We really enjoy when we can find music from local composers, and have even had our Artistic Director compose music for us. We joke and say we try to stay away from "old dead white guy music" when we're looking for new pieces.
How can people get involved with Calliope?
If you're the singing type we hold auditions twice a year. Generally sometime around the end of August for our Fall semester and then also in January before the start of our spring semester. If you're not the singing type we can't have a performance without audience members. We also have a mailing list, and host a couple different fundraisers throughout the year.
When are you performing next?
We'll be at Golden Valley Pride on June 8th at 3:10pm and our Spring Concert is June 15th at Spirit of Hope in Golden Valley at 4pm.
What is the best part of being in Calliope?
So, I don't think I can speak for the whole choir, but for me, the best part of Calliope is the community. Calliope has been the place and the community I needed so many times throughout my seven years in the chorus, and it's one of the most supportive spaces I know. I also really enjoy the act of making art with people and this gives me a place every week to do that with a really incredible and talented group of people.
When and how did Calliope form?
Calliope looks much differently than it started,but the core is still the same. We know Calliope first started in 1976 when a group of women would gather in a living room of one of their homes and sing together. They all felt comfortable being feminists together and making music, and it's just grown from there.
If you could perform on any stage, what stage would you pick and why?Calliope has been so fortunate to get to perform on some really beautiful stages around the Twin Cities and even across the country through GALA and Sister Singers. I don't know if this would be everyone in the Chorus's answer, but I would love to perform at Red Rocks in Colorado. We don't do a lot of outdoor performances with choral music because of acoustics but I think we could make Red Rocks work for us and it'd be really fun!
ALI CLAYTON’S DEBUT COMEDY ALBUM COUNTRY QUEER
Blonde Medicine is excited to announce the release of Ali Clayton’s debut comedy album Country Queer, available digitally everywhere comedy is streamed or downloaded, and on vinyl on Blonde Medicine and Bandcamp.
After working in comedy for 15 years, Ali put together a set that tells her story as a member of a very Southern family from rural North Carolina, a special ed kid, a lesbian, an alcoholic, and a white girl who started her comedy career in the South Side of Chicago.
“Country Queer is a love letter to little Ali about embracing and loving your authentic self and never forgetting where you come from.” Says Ali Clayton. “I’m country and I’m queer and I’m proud to be both.” Her comedy aims to help humanize and connect Southerners and queer folks everywhere.
Country Queer is live. The album is available in full everywhere comedy is streamed or sold.
Your album Country Queer is coming out now! What was the best part of making this album?
The night I recorded the album at The Laughing Tap in Milwaukee WI was magical! I had toured and ran my hour long set for two months and when I stepped on the stage that night I was ready. The audience was with me the whole time. The room felt electric. When I stepped off stage I knew I had made something great.
If you had to write a country song based off your love life-what would the title be?
I love this game! I have a bunch. Also, you can probably tell from my song titles that my last relationship ended badly lol.
You can’t even drive a truck.
I didn’t know it then, but you leaving was a win.
She was in a bad mood for 6 long years.
Sometimes I miss her titters.
Thanks for never taking out the trash.
Who makes you laugh? What kind of comedy do you love to digest?
Ever Mainard is my favorite comic, best friend, and co-host of Y’all Gay. Their energy on stage is mesmerizing.
I’ve been obsessed with Fortune Feimster for a very long time. She's gay and from NC like me! She puts so much heart into her hilarious story telling and it shows.
Roy Wood Jr. is hands down one of the most talented comics working today. He’s also the kindest man in show biz. Roy crafts jokes in a way that you learn while you laugh. He had a positive pro trans joke in his last special and I think about it at least once a week.
You grew up in the South. How did that flavor your coming out process?
Growing up I heard in church being gay was a sin and all gay people are going to hell. Folks always saying “hate the sin, not the sinner” makes me want to barf. I was scared to lose my family so it took me a long time. I did it in baby steps. First I told a friend in college, It took me to 25 to tell my Mama and I didn’t tell my Dad till I was 27.
There’s a lot of coming out jokes on the album. My Mama’s and my Dad’s reactions are hilarious. I also tell a fifteen minute story about my first time having sex with a woman.
How do you cultivate community in your own world?
I’ve really cultivated a community in NYC. I got into my first serious lesbian relationship in 2016. I was so in love and so proud to be with her. I wanted the whole world to know. We were together 6 years, it didn’t end well but I’m still grateful. Through loving her, I learned to love, except and to be proud of my gayness.
I started performing at a lot more gay events when I moved to NYC. I did an event for Lesbian Bar Project and I became friends with the creators/directors, Erica Rose and Elina Street. They have welcomed me into their circle and introduced me to so many other queers. They have made me feel like I belong and have taught me that even though I’m sober, safe spaces like lesbian bars are for me too.
I also build community through my podcast Y’all Gay! Ever and I talk to many gay southern listeners that don’t have much of a community based on where they live. A lot of our listeners have told me that the pod makes them feel seen and less alone. I think listeners feeling this way is a testament to how much representation matters.
What is some of the best advice you’ve ever taken to heart?
A few veteran comics have told me “it takes 8-10 years to get really good at standup, so work hard and be patient, your time will come.” I’m 15 years in and I feel like my time has finally come.
What advice would you give other Southern queer folk that are struggling with coming out in their communities?
It’s not a race, go at your own pace. Tell the people you know are safe and supportive first. That way you have someone there to support you if a friend or family member doesn't take it well. Also it’s okay to distance yourself from people that aren't supportive. My sister is homophobic and says very mean things to me. I still struggle with it but cutting her out of my life has been the best choice for my mental health.
Tell us more about your podcast: Y’all Gay!
We always say Y’all Gay is a comedic podcast for everyone brought to you by two southern queers. I think one of the main reasons it's so enjoyable to listen to is because it's obvious how much Ever and I love and respect each other. They truly are my best friend and getting to goof off with them for an hour each week is a gift. We talk a lot about southern culture and our personal experiences being gay southerners. We also improvise and make up fake products which folks seem to love.
What is your favorite place to perform?
The Midwest! I came up in comedy in Chicago and going back feels like going home.
What are your go to gas station snacks?
Combos, sour patch kids and diet mountain dew.
What are you reading or listening to right now?
My all time favorite music is definitely 90’s country. I currently can’t stop listening to G-flip and Fletcher. I also regularly listen to up and coming queer country artists like Julie Williams, Morgan Wade, Lily Rose and Brooke Eden.
What is something you hope to accomplish is 2024?
This year I’m hoping to get an SNL audition and to open for Fortune Feimster!
Bring the Biscuits: An Interview with Jen Kober.
As a funny kid growing up in Louisiana, Jen learned to confront the uncomfortable truth by making fun of it. Jen is an out and proud lesbian and will be the first to say you can tell she’s gay by looking at her. Jen learned how to navigate life as a queer Southern woman the only way Jen does anything. With gusto and intention. She is a natural storyteller, and the lilt of her Southern accent will make your heart smile and beg for more! Jen is joining forces with the incredible, legendary, comedian and activist Susan Westenhoefer at The Parkway Theater in Minneapolis On June 6th!
You grew up in Louisiana - What is the biggest difference between Louisiana and Minnesota?
The food! Everything in Looziana is spicy - even the people. Minnesota is full of nice mild people :)
Do you remember the first time you made someone laugh? Did you know that you wanted more?
I was always trying to make my mom laugh as a kid. When she laughed she was in a good mood and then I could get some gum at the store. Gum has always been a huge motivator for me!
Who did you grow up watching that made you laugh?
I loved The Carol Burnett Show and Good Times. I also laughed a lot at my little sister. She made lots of faces and was just goofy - in a good way.
You recently started performing in Las Vegas! Tell us more!
I am one of the featured comedians in the Cirque du Soleil show, MAD APPLE at the New York New York Casino and Resort in Vegas. It has been amazing to work with such skilled and talented performers in such a large scale production. I actually come up out of the stage on a lift. It’s pretty cool.
You have been in so many amazing TV Shows! What is something you’ve done or seen on TV sets that we wouldn’t believe?
I gues all the CGI stuff is what impresses me most. I remember when we were shooting the Mandalorian, there was a set, but we were in Front of green screens. Then when I saw the finished production and all the graphics they had put in and all of the action that they had added to the scene. It was really amazing to me.
I am tired just watching your travel schedule! What are your favorite travel tips? Favorite snacks on the road?
Always leave early! I’ve had so many things go wrong during travel. I have almost never missed a show - and it’s because I start my journey at the crack of dawn. And always travel with snacks. I’m a fan of Peanut M&Ms and honey mustard pretzels.
You are in fact a lesbian. When did you come out? What do you love about loving women?
I came out when I was 21 once I had a girlfriend who I wanted to bring home for the holidays. It was the scariest thing I’ve ever done - and it was rough at first - but now everyone is so open about things and there is such visibility. I love everything about women. Mostly that they are not MEN. LOL
Everyone has a podcast and now you do too!
Yes, I do! It’s called Bitchin over biscuits. Every week we tackle a new genre of podcast and dive deep into that topic with a different celebrity guest. It’s super fun and I’ve gotten the chance to talk to so many amazing people.
Who would be your dream interview?
Lynda Carter!
If you had to come up with a slogan for Minneapolis-what would it be?
Minneapolis - hot dish heaven. (Those tater tots on top are my favorite)
You are performing with Susan Westenhoefer at The Parkway! How did that collaboration happen? What can folks expect from this dynamic duo?
Suzanne has always been an icon of lesbian comedy and she’s one of the funniest people on the planet. We met on an Olivia trip in Turks & Caicos and became fast friends.
You can expect to laugh until your face hurts at both of us! We even have a couple of stories we tell together.
Who is your favorite female duo of all time?
Laverne & Shirley
What is the best advice you have ever had?
TRUST IN YOURSELF. And Always bet on YOU.
What is next for Jen Kober?
I have an extensive touring schedule of live performances, and I have a TV appearance coming up on the HBO Max show BOOKIE. Plus a couple of movies in the works, so stay tuned!
Suzanne Westenhoefer makes her way to The Parkway Theater for Pride Month!
Suzzanne Westenhoefer loves the Minneapolis International Airport! As a comedian that has been touring since the mid 90’s Suzanne couldn’t stop raving about the airport when I asked her if she had spent much time in Minnesota. “You know I haven’t, but I am in love with your airport!”
You have been touring since the mid 90’s, you were the first openly gay woman with an HBO special and you have been a part of Olivia Travel for years. How has the scene changed since you began comedy?
Being a gay comic isn’t really a thing anymore. It’s everywhere. It can’t be your only thing. In the 90’s audiences minds would be blown, just that there was an out lesbian on stage. When men would laugh, it was almost like they were mad about it. Like we laughed, we enjoyed a lesbian. Damn it. And the fact that I looked like the girl they took to Prom just took it to a whole other level. I also used to have a lot of audience members that would come up to me after a show and say, “My teacher is gay, or I have a gay sister or a gay family member.” They were trying to connect with me by telling me they had someone gay in their life. Now, it is just so much more accepted people don’t come up to me anymore to tell me they know another gay person.
You have been a gay activist for many years. Why did you get involved with social justice?
When I first started it was just from a place of stop killing us, stop beating us, stop firing us. In college I started a little group on campus, and it was the only time I was gay bashed. It really wasn’t a gay bashing; it was such a weak gay bashing. Two Christian boys followed me after one of our meetings to my dorm and they threw their bibles down to shove me. That’s my favorite part. Like it is almost like you never read it dude. I’m a full-on atheist and I got to tell you; I don’t think you’re getting it. I think you’ve missed the plot. Do you know what I mean?
What do you like to do outside of comedy?
One of my favorite things in the world is DNA and genealogy. It is so wonderful and bizarre to be able to look back and see the amazing people I came from. Recently my sister traced our name back nine generations to the Mayflower. Up until that point, all I knew was that our family was from Lancaster County Pennsylvania. I have also been addicted to true crime for easily 40 years and I love when DNA solves a cold case and some terrible old man thinks he has got away with it, but no, you’re going to rot in jail now, thank you DNA.
What has been a memorable time in comedy?
Recently, I was asked to do an interview for Olivia Travel because I have worked for them for years and they are turning 50! Last week they came here to do an interview with me, and they were also trying to interview Lily Tomlin, but she was not sure where she wanted to meet. I suggested Lily come to my house to interview because she knows me and had been to my house before and within about 6 minutes they called back and said Lily is fine with that, she will do the interview at your house. While they were filming, Lily was talking about never really coming out and how different it was in the 80’s. And she turned to me and said, “Oh but Suzanne what you’ve done, it’s just so amazing. You’ve always been out. I’ve been hearing about you for 20-30 years.” In my mind I’m like “Oh my God, I can’t believe this is happening and this is happening in front of all these people, and someone is filming it.” So, to have one of your heroes say something like that was incredible.
How did you and Jen link up?
We met on an Olivia cruise. We both have the same sense of humor, and I don’t have a ton of friends who are comics, nor do other comics, I don’t know why but we don’t. So, I think we were just excited about that connection and the idea for a show came up and we thought, let’s see what happens.
Suzanne was such a lovely person to chat with. She made you feel like you were already friends. As a lesbian comedian, it was an honor to interview someone who I have admired for so long. I see why her fans love her. And you will too! Make sure you get your tickets now to what is sure to be a sellout show! Go online to The Parkway and join me on June 6th for this amazing night of comedy.
It's Gabby OK!
Is it a bird? Is it a plane? It’s Gabby OK! Flying high in the Twin Cities comedy scene.
Gabby OK is a comedian and producer who shares the trials and tribulations of her life with audiences in a way that evokes transparency and elicits a fun playful connection. I love working with Gabby!
Gabby is a true professional and one of the funniest comics I know. Read on to find out more about this comedian on the rise!
Let’s get right into it. When did you know you were funny?
As the youngest child, I would like to say I always thought I was funny. But I knew I was funny in elementary school when I made my classmates laugh with side comments while teachers were teaching. All of my report card comments were some version of, “bright student, talks too much.” Do I “talk too much” or is my name literally Gabby?
When did you decide you wanted to try stand up comedy?
I was put in a group text with another comedian. After I got off the phone with him I went to Target to buy a notebook and started writing jokes that night. Per his suggestion, I looked up open mics and it went well, so I kept doing it.
Where did you grow up? Who was your biggest funny influencer growing up?
I was born and raised in Vegas. My personality and humor was shaped by seeking the validation of my older siblings. I was influenced by seeing kids be silly on tv and movies. I thought to myself, “they’re getting paid to do that, and I do that for free everyday.” So I guess my biggest influences were a combination of my older siblings, Little Rascals, and capitalism.
What makes you laugh?
I enjoy things are that clever and witty. But when YouTube first came out, my most popular search was “babies/kids falling.” Usually kids fall when they are doing something they aren’t supposed to be doing, and that brings me joy.
How long have you been a producer for Stand Up Saloon?
Time is a man made construct, but a little over a year *question mark*
What makes Stand Up Saloon different from other open mics?
It’s a gay bar and we know the gays are supportive and also brutally honest. So when a joke is good, it’s really good. It’s a great way to figure out if your unique perspective on universal topics (dating, mommy/daddy issues, your job etc.) work for with more targeted audiences. When a joke doesn’t land, it’s a great opportunity to figure out how to rework it and try again next Tuesday.
Who are some of your comedy hero’s?
Saheer Zamata, Taylor Tomlinson, and there’s a wealth of comedians in the Twin Cities scene I look up and learn so much from. Honestly, I can’t brag enough about how lucky I am to get to work with really funny, smart, silly people.
What’s something you’d like to see more of in the comedy scene in Minneapolis or world wide?
More women of color. Specifically, so many Black women people have to learn all of or names and never confuse us for one another.
Rumriver Art Center's Queer Connect and Create.
Madison Nelmark is working to create a broader queer arts community in the north metro!
Tell us about what you do at Rum River Art?
I am Madison Nelmark and I work as the Volunteer and Outreach Director and as a Teaching Artist for the Rumriver Art Center, located in Anoka, MN. We are a non-profit organization that provides the North Metro region with a plethora of opportunities to learn, create, and explore the art-making process. My specific role is to reach out to our community and build partnerships that make art accessible to all ages of any skill. We heavily focus on bringing art into the community through mural projects, library classes, senior living facilities, and workshops at local businesses. I also coordinate all of our volunteers so they can help with tasks around the art center, as they are an essential part of building community and keeping the art center organized.
I also teach art in multiple mediums such as painting, drawing, sculpture, printmaking, and clay. My main focus is on instructing wheel-thrown pottery to elementary-aged youth. Since I began working here, about 8 months ago, I have also started a figure modeling program in hopes of allowing individuals to have an affordable way to draw from a live model and not have to travel a great distance for an opportunity such as this. By being engaged in both an administrative and teaching role I have been able to see almost every aspect of how our non-profit positively impacts arts in the North Metro and the vibrancy creativity brings to our community.
How has this work impacted you and how do you see it impacting others?
Through the work I have been doing I have started to build fulfilling relationships within the community on both a personal and organizational level. These connections have been a large part of my happiness as a recent college graduate. I studied in Canada and returned to Minnesota after, but lacking a lot of the vital social connections most make in college. I returned to the States with a vastly different understanding of what is needed in our more rural communities, as I was able to reflect on my upbringing as a queer woman here from an outside perspective.
As a part of my role, I am trying to create safe spaces and programming for queer folx to create art and build a community; as there is a significant lack of social spaces for queer folks in the North Metro. I am hoping by starting classes and events that are designated for queer folx we will be able to better support our queer youth and have places where community and connection can take place.
As a teaching artist, I am mostly teaching homeschooled, elementary-aged youth. I work to be a supportive figure in their life and a person they can connect with outside of their home environment. I also strive to help build friendships between my students. I hope that by fostering a supportive environment, engaging with my students about their interests, and learning how to communicate our complex emotions around art making, most often frustration, they will finish my classes with new art skills and know that they are valued and important.
I am grateful that this position allows me to have a positive impact on my local area while also bringing me much joy.
You have a few amazing classes coming up! Can you tell me about them? Do they cost money? How do you sign up?
Queer Craft and Create is free with a suggested $10 donation. We have two more sessions scheduled but are hoping to add more as the program grows. These are on Tuesday, May 21st, and Tuesday, June 18th from 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm. May's craft will be pendant and pin making and June's event will be patch making for Pride Month. To sign up go to rumriverart.com and go to the drop-down menu labeled 'Programs' and under 'Community Programs' there will be a listing.
Me and Amber, the owner of Metta Coffee, have collaborated to create a safe and sober social space for any queer folx in our area. We are hosting these events as a casual get-together. I will be there guiding crafting projects for folks interested, and helping attendants feel comfortable when talking to new people. If folks are not the crafty type the coffee bar is open and individuals are invited to grab a beverage and just chat with others there. We also provide free yarn, so bring your crochet hooks and knitting needles!
Queer Pottery (Q. Pottery) is a paid ($45/per person) class. This class is being held on Friday, May 3rd from 6-8 pm. This class is instructed as an introductory class and will teach the basics of wheel-thrown pottery - so no experience is required! To sign-up visit our website, rumriverart.com, go to the drop-down menu labeled 'Classes', and then go to 'Pottery Classes' to register.
For folks who think Anoka is just too far away..exactly how long of a drive is it?
Rum River Art Center is approximately a 25-minute drive from both Downtown St. Paul and Downtown Minneapolis, and right off of Highway 10. We also have free parking available on and off the street.
Do you need to have any experience?
Absolutely Not! We offer classes for all skill levels and all ages. We teach ages 5-95+, with specific programming supporting school-age youth and 55+ through our Vitality programming, which is offered in-house and in our community. For experienced ceramicists, we also have several open studio options every week. If you just enjoy art we also have relaxed ways to engage with art through our Coffee and Chat meetings, or Vitality Arts Open Studios.
How can folks volunteer or get involved?
If folks are interested in volunteering we have a sign-up genius with our opportunities, this can be found by searching my email, madison@rumriverart.com on signupgenius.com. Folks may also email me if they are looking for a specific type of opportunity or if the posted listing does not fit into their schedule.
If individuals would like to get involved in another way, such as becoming a teaching artist, they can also email me inquiring for more information specific to their interests.
How can people sign up for classes?
All of our classes can be found on our website, rumriverart.com, under the drop-down menu labeled 'Classes.' In-house classes are divided into six categories: Kids Classes, Adult Classes, Vitality Arts/Older Adults Classes, School-Age and Homeschool Classes, Family/All Ages Classes, and Pottery Classes. Outreach classes (taught out-of-house) can be found on the drop-down menu labeled 'Programs' under 'Community Programs.'
The Veronicas: Gothic Summer Tour
I first heard of The Veronicas from my first girlfriend who in true lesbian form made me a playlist within a few weeks of dating. The first song was The Veronicas, Take Me on the Floor. I have been hooked every since.
This strong, sister, pop, punk, rock duo has been electrifying stages across the country for nearly two decades and they are just getting started. It was a delightful interview, they called me love and angel as if you were talking to your best friend or sister. Their ability to just be themselves is a gift and it came through so transparently in this interview. I believe them when they say they love the music, they love the journey, they love the fans. They love each other! Please join me at the show and read on to learn a little bit more about his amazing duo.
After two decades in the recording industry, you have made a name for yourself as hardworking, female pop, punk, rock artists. What motivates you to create and perform today?
I think for us, we started out as songwriters and have always had a love for music. We started singing when we were five years old. So, we have always had the passion to create and perform and writing our feelings into a creative space has always been in our blood. I think that just continues on. We are storytellers and we have an infinite range of stories about the human experience. People always ask us: How do you not run out of things to talk about? But I think that’s just life, it’s just about living life and growing into different perspectives and staying curious.
Working with family can have its ups and downs. Has there been a time where you each had a different vision for your next steps and how did you get through it
Making music with your identical twin is a unique experience, I think specifically to us. It is funny, on a creative level, we’ve always been on the same page. There have never really been many creative conflicts. I feel like when we enter a room, even if it is with collaborators or producers, we intrinsically feel like we’re always speaking the same language. Creatively we are always in sync, so we are very fortunate that way. Touring life and its demands can bring a difficult dynamic for anyone. You’re put under many sleepless nights; very small spaces and I think having personal boundaries is important. You learn that along the way. We’ve been on the road touring as musicians for a long time. So, we have definitely learned the healthy way to self-regulate, to take that time for you and in the ways, you need it and how to communicate it. We do often say we laugh so we don’t cry sometimes and that’s life and how you get through it.
I have always loved your music because there is always a moment in each song where I feel so seen and heard and not alone in pain or in love or in happiness. I love that you share an unfiltered version of your feelings in your music. What motivates you as writers?
That is so beautiful! And that means so much to us! So, thank you for saying that! I think our greatest honor in what we do is songwriting. It is telling those stories as openly and honestly as we can. I think what’s motivated us is growing up with amazing music. We loved the blues and Michael Jackson and lots of artists who put their heart and soul into what they do. The human experience connects us all. It’s our humanness, our emotions, our ability to experience fear and fall in love and have insecurity and be able to relate with each other and to feel connected. We want that connection in our music, for the people to connect to it.
What is a typical day at home like for each of you when you are not touring?
Lisa: I have a beautiful supportive partner that I have been with for 10 years and we live in the mountains in Australia, off grid. So, for me I think when I’m not in the matrix and the excitement of life and creation, I like to be surrounded by nature and just be given a perspective. So, when I’m looking at birds it makes sense! My happiest times are with my Dacshaund named Polly. I love to get coffee and sit down with Polly and my husband, Logan and we have these magical birds in Australia, like where we live is actually a bird sanctuary. So, I’ll come down on the porch and feel like it’s an Australian Disney experience. And I honestly love to bake scones, write songs, and do a bit of photography. I stay creative, stay inspired. I like to go hiking and cold plunging in the creeks and just immerse myself in nature to be honest and to just really take some time for myself. I like to have solitude, to do some reading.
Jessievin: A day off for me is similar. It is just immersing myself in nature. Me and my partner Alex live right on the beaches in Australia, so we walk the beach every morning. We sort of wake up, have our coffee and go for a walk. We cold plunge as well, but in the ocean. Then we sit and spend some time in the sunshine and sit in stillness. We love to go to the local farmer’s market. I love that kind of slow living, meditating, watching movies and just catching up.
I love your style! Who are your biggest fashion influences?
As far as fashion goes, we’ve always been influenced by different eras of fashion. The twenties had real kind of cool dresses we often alter. So, when we go shopping, we love to rummage through the vintage stores to find treasure, we call it. Sometimes we will find the most incredible outfits because the fabrics and the cuts were so interesting and creative and the textures and everything, they used back then was so high quality. We love to take fashion from the twenties, thirties and forties and alter it for our stage costumes. So, we’ll take a baby doll dress and alter it to be 90’s grunge, but it’s actually a long gown from the 1920’s. We love old Hollywood stars, Marlene Dietrich who had a bit more of an androgynous, strong look from the thirties. She was amazing. I think one of the first bisexual women in cinema. We grew up watching k.d. lang who you know was partial to a pinstripe power suit. Her drag era was everything. Our Mom was the biggest k.d.lang fan so she would take us to all her shows and we were obsessed! And then Chris Isaac where he had a bit of the Elvis thing going on with his rhinestoned suits and slicked back hair, actually had a lot of masc influence in our style. We also love Helena Bonham Carter, where she is almost, naturally, a bit of a Tim Burton character. We love people who take risks with their fashion: Cate Blanchett, Winona Ryder, Gwen Stefani in the nineties. Anything a little left of center. We love Vivian Westwood, vintage Prada, or you know stuff that is made in small batches. We sort of have this homemade, DIY element to everything we like to do. Just last night, Lisa was getting me to make her necklace out of safety pins, 15 minutes before we went on stage. We love theater too; we were very inspired by drag in the nineties. We would go to a lot of underground drag shows and just being able to be free with your self-expression. There are a lot of theatrical elements to everything we do as well because we grew up in musical theater. So, we do have a little bit of theatrical flair with everything we do. It is fun, you know. We don’t take ourselves so seriously, I suppose. We like to have fun with fashion. We don’t really love trends, sort of go against it. We’re a bit counterculture, rebellious.
What song do you love to sing the most and why?
Oh, it is like choosing your favorite baby! It is so hard to choose! It’s a different show every time, because the crowd dictates for us what is the most fun. Last night we played in San Fransisco, and we played this song from Gothic Sumer called Rib Cage and we did a mash up with an old song of ours called Heavenly Broken and they were so into it! It made it one of the highlights for us! Untouched is always a huge, powerful moment, people lose their minds as soon as those strings start. It is an incredible moment. But honestly, we love all our songs equally, they are our babies.
What is the biggest change in the LGBTQ movement that gives you hope for the future?
We have seen it change a huge amount in the last twenty years and actually longer than that because we grew up in the theater and we were raised within queer spaces in that way. We had so many queer mentors in the theater and Australia as well. So, I think visibility in mainstream media and entertainment is one of the biggest, as well as having marriage equality in multiple places. I think there is a greater mainstream conversation, daily conversations between family and friends, the understanding from the Christian community that does embrace the culture, is huge. There has been a huge amount of social progression and legislative progression and political progression over the last twenty years, and we hope it continues. There is still a lot of work to do everywhere, and I think to see it being celebrated in mainstream media is one of the biggest changes.
What are you reading or listening to these days?
We listen to a lot of the same things. We love alternative perspectives. We consider ourselves free thinkers and we love to learn different perspectives so that we can learn more about the world. One of our favorite podcasts is Huberman Labs, he talks a lot about alternative understandings to our health and wellness. Joe Rogan who always has a lot of interesting people. Expanded Perspectives, is a fun podcast run by some dear friends of ours in Texas. And they talk about a lot of different mythical creatures and stories about UFO’s. We are both reading books on tour. (Lisa) I’m reading Maslov’s, The Farther Reaches of Human Nature. (Jessie) I’m reading Mustard Seed, by Osho. It is the revolutionary teachings of Jesus.